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The Brett Favre Story Leaves Us Wondering : Did He or Didn't He

A story broke late last week on the website deadspin.com about former Southern Mississippi and current Minnesota Vikings quarterback Brett Favre. The story accuses Favre of sending racy text messages and video to Jenn Sterger a former New York Jets game hostess.

Call me cynical but I have reservations about this story. When stories like these break most are quick to believe them and take them for the gospel.

I have learned to take a wait and see approach to most stories like this. Why? Because for every story the media gets right like Tiger Woods infidelity, they strike out on stories like the Duke Lacrosse team and Kobe Bryant.

Just recently, Pittsburgh Steelers quarterback Ben Roethlisberger was involved in not one but two allegations of sexual assault. The Steelers quarterback, who returns from a four game suspension this week, was never charged in either case.

Roethlisberger might have committed the crimes he was accused of but they could not be proven. Do I think Big Ben is guilty? I am not sure, but I do believe more went on than the police could prove.

While the Favre case is not a criminal matter as of yet, it does compare to the cases above. Also in an interesting side note this is not the first time this season a player or coach with the New York Jets has been accused harassing a woman.

A reporter for Mexico's TV Azteca, Ines Sainz; alleged harassment while attending a Jets practice while waiting to interview quarterback Mark Sanchez. The Jets and the NFL quickly handled the matter, with Jets owner Woody Johnson apologized and NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell ordering a training program for all 32 teams on proper conduct in the workplace and that the program would be underwritten by Johnson.

Back to the Favre story, there are things to take into account before taking a stance on this story. First of all deadspin.com did not get this story from Sterger but a third party that the news organization paid for.

In fact, deadspin.com admitted to paying more for this story than any story before, and one has to question the validity of a story that is paid for. Most news outlets do not allow stories that are contingent on the source being paid.

Now does that mean the information in the story about Favre and Sterger is wrong? Well, factor this in as well; deadspin.com acknowledges that the person who sent the texts, videos, and voicemails may not be Favre but someone pretending to be Favre.

This raises red flags on this story once more. Anytime someone claims to have evidence of something in one breath and also says it could be faked in another breath, it gives me pause to believe what they are feeding me.

In deadspin.com favor is that since the story broke two massage therapists have come forward and said that Favre sent them voicemails and texts as well. That would show a pattern of behavior against Favre.

Then I have to ask myself this, Favre spent 16 years in Green Bay playing for the Packers and has spent nearly two years in Minnesota. After the ugly breakup between Favre and the Packers, no one came out and said Favre sexually harassed female employees with Green Bay and no one in Minnesota has come out against Favre either.

Favre has a troubled past and has battled a Vicodin and alcohol additions. Even before they were married Favre's wife Deanna wrote in her book that Favre had a wondering eye.

The couple has been married for 14 years and there have been no stories since before they were married that Favre has been anything but faithful. Deanna Favre's silence is a reason for concern if you believe Favre did nothing.

Favre himself has been silent as well only saying to ESPN about the accuracy of the reports "That will take its course." Also Favre said he would have "no problem with talking to the commissioner" if Goodell wanted to speak to him.

I have followed sports my entire life and there is not much that surprises me anymore. The last time I was shocked by a story was the death of former Alcorn State and Tennessee Titian quarterback Steve McNair.

McNair lost his life in a murder/suicide with is mistress Sahel Kazemi. The death of McNair once again showed just how little we know about athletes off the field.

There are few athletes that would surprise me if they were involved in a scandal. One that comes to mind is former Florida Gators and Denver Broncos quarterback Tim Tebow.

Tebow, no matter how you feel about certain aspects of his life, has been a model citizen in college and so far in the NFL. The young man has never been arrested or in any other type of trouble.

All Tebow did while in college was earn a degree and stay out of trouble. I would take 100 Tebows over half the other guys who have run afoul of the law.

I just do not know about Favre and this story. One could question a million things about the story but the truth no matter what it is hopefully will come to light.

This story like countless others just show us, as fans and media, just how little we truly know about the athletes we look up too and write about.

Feel free to come to your own conclusions but be careful because until the truth comes out, one side just got fooled again.

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