The old saying "never judge a book by its cover" was always something that would cross my mind in certain situations. Whether I was trying to decide on a book to read or what I thought of new people I met, the cover used to make a difference to me. But as I've gotten older, I've realized that the meaning of that saying is as simple as it sounds.
As a summer intern for the Jackson Free Press this year, I've gotten a chance to meet people for interviews that I probably would have never met in any other circumstance. They are all from different walks of life and all have their own stories to tell, but the amazing part of it is that they all want to help and inspire other people. They've given me the courage to go out and meet people and be open to those who may be going through something and may feel alone. I think it's important for people to know that everyone has a story and that even a small conversation will lead to finding out that you may have more in common than you thought.
Growing up, I was very shy and kept to myself. Once I got to high school, I started to open up more. I made a few friends here and there, but I soon learned that the people you call your friends can't always be trusted. I lost friends here and there, but who doesn't? I became somewhat shy again when I got to college, but I decided that I can't be alone all the time and that everyone is not out to get me.
I'm learning that what I've been through could help someone else. I listen when I meet people who are willing to open up to me about a problem. Sometimes they don't want advice, and sometimes they do. The best part is knowing I may have just helped them, even if only a little.
A lady once told me that everything you experience can be a testimony. I didn't always have people that I felt I could just talk to about certain problems, and I want to be that person for others. It can mean a lot to someone if you simply listen without judgment and without questioning.
College is a fresh start for everyone. The best years of your life are just ahead, and I encourage everyone to meet someone new or someone you wouldn't normally talk to. It can change your view on certain things or even enlighten on others. Besides, what could it hurt?
Deja Harris is a junior at Alcorn State University, where she is the editor of her school newspaper.
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